As a soldier he was drafted into WWII. He fought in some of the toughest battles in Europe doing what soldiers do. He didn’t talk about the horrors of war but the compassionate side like the time he delivered a calf for two Belgium women, or the time his buddy was killed or the German girl need help and he helped find her a coat. The time a boy was taunting the US Troops and he skidded his half track to within inches of the boy leaping over the windshield grabbed the boy and fanned his behind and his mother came out running and he thought he was going to get hit by her broom and instead she swatted the boy’s behind. The candy and cigarettes he gave away (He didn’t smoke).

A Farmer: he was just a good one. He had a fine diary herd and was proud of it. I jokingly have said he had 35 wives, one in the house and 34 in the barn. He told me the only time he worked was the 3 years 7 months and 17 days he was in the Army; farming was a joy so how could it be work?

A Husband: He married my mother a short time after meeting her and yes there were some tough times but I never saw dad strike mom or even yell at her, he would just give her time to see it his way. His dad my grand dad told me he never went to bed mad at my grand mother but had spent many nights setting in the barn till the wee hours of the morning, I guess dad learned well from his dad.

As a Father: He was patient and slow to anger, and yes I gave him cause. I guess the harshest words he every said to me were “I’m disappointed in you son” Boy did they hurt but I had them coming.

As a Grand Father: after Gayle and I were divorced he always had time for you boys, taking you fishing and spending time with you I just never had time to do. Dad always knew just what to say to you and you are two fine men today in large part to my dad.

As a Great Grand Father: he was always glad to be around his great grand kids and they all loved him very much. I just wish you could have known him better. Ask your dads about him they or I will tell you about your truly Great Grand Father.

As a Lodge Brother he was liked by all and he served as Noble Grand, he was High Priest for many years and card player with the best of them.

As a Friend and Neighbor: in the neighborhood many boys especially the McKinley and Dixon kids found a friend in Jesse. If he could help a boy or neighbor he was always there. Likewise if he needed help they were there too. I can’t count all the good friends and neighbors he had. I once heard it said not to count your treasures by the money in the bank but by the friends you have. Dad you are truly a wealthy man.

In closing my dad was a simple man; simply good, loyal, kind, forgiving, thoughtful, reverend, hard working, fun to be around. This was and is my Dad.

Wendy Baker, Jr. Past President Rebekah Assembly of Massachusetts

With Sympathy,
Lynn Bonewitz